Showing posts with label faith. Show all posts
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Tuesday, December 29, 2020

Book Recommendations from my Best Reads in 2020

Here is a list of some of the best books I read this year. I will BOLD the ones I highly recommend and leave a few notes about them. So many of the non-bolded ones were fantastic too - so all of these books are recommended but I tried to highlight only 20. 

Take the Stairs – Rory Vaden : I loved this book. Simple advice on life success. 

Nine Lies about Work: Marcus Buckingham

Half Time - Bob Buford : I have read this book multiple times. It's a classic and a life changer. 

Confidence – Tomas Chomorro : Very intriguing book about how LOW confidence actually helps us. So counter-cultural! So fun!

Live Fearless – Sadie Robertson

What’s Next – Chris Hodges : I love everything this guy does. His sermons, his church (Church of the Highlands), his leadership material, his books - all so good! Fantastic material that every follower of Jesus should read. 

The Jesus creed – Scot Mcknight

Church Growth Flywheel – Rich Birch

The Jesus Experience – Bill Perkins

John Commentaries – x 5

The Jesus Life – Stephen W. Smith

Divine Direction – Craig Groeschel

Regrace – Frank Viola

The Primes

Teaming – Amy Edmundson

Who is this Man – John Ortberg

The Jesus I never knew – Philip Yancey

Jesus the King - Tim Keller : Fantastic book that will help you get to know Jesus better. 

The End of Religion – Bruxey Cavey : A great and edgy challenge. Be ready to be offended and transformed. 

Portraits of Christ – Laird (John)

Jesus is… Judah Smith : Judah Smith has a way of communicating that gets right to my heart. He shares about God's love and grace in a balanced and yet over the top powerful way. I highly recommend this book. 

State of the online church – Jay Kranda

Seeing and Savouring Christ – Piper : Everything by Piper is fantastic.

Jesus – Pure and Simple - Wayne Cordiero

Laugh Again - Charles Swindoll : Everyone should read at least a couple of Swindoll books at some point. This guy is one of my ministry heroes. Many of his sermons hit home for me like almost no one else's preaching. 

Better than Before – Gretchen Rubin

Leadership Strategy and Tactics – Jocko Willink : I was pleasantly surprised by how applicable this book is for everyone. Definitely a high recommend

Your New Money Mindset – Brad Hewitt and James Malone

Crushing - TD Jakes

SOAR – TD Jakes

Extreme Ownership  – Jocko Willink : I loved this book. I wish every leader could read it. I have bought 8 copies so far for others to read and handed them out. My son Joel and I had a blast reading and reflecting together on this book and the one above by Jocko. 

Success From the Inside Out – Nona Jones : This is another top book of the year for me. I literally wept and wept as I read it. The transforming power of Jesus is so evident here. I highly recommend this book for everyone. 

Phil – Commentary – Barclay

Phil – Commentary – Life Application

Phil – Commentary – Weisrbe

Phil – Commentary – Briscoe

 Real Life Discipleship Training Manuel – Jim Putman

Discipleshift – Jim Putmann

Joy – CS Lewis

The Dangerous Duty of Delight – John Piper

You’ll get through this – Max Lucado

Leadershift – John Maxwell

The Release of the Spirit – Watchman Nee

Talk like TED

Waking the Dead – John Eldredge

How to Get a Date Worth Keeping – Henry Cloud - Just to clarify. I am happily married. I read these books as I prepared for a series of sermons I was preaching on this topic. This one by Cloud really blew my mind, he had a fresh perspective that I think might be helpful for some Christians stuck in a "non-dating" mode. 

New Rules for Love, sex and dating – Andy Stanley : This is a classic that every single should read. 

Beginners Pluck - Liz Bohanon

Spiritual Leadership – J Oswald Sanders : One of the top 3 leadership books of all time. Every Christian leader must read this book. 

Apostolic Advancement – Various Victory Asia Authors

Leadership Can Be Taught – Sharon Parks

Irresistible – Andy Stanley

Happiness – Henry Cloud

Proverbs – Kroll

Get Wise – Bob Merritt : The best book on wisdom I have read. I have read this book several times and given it to many people. 

The Intangibles of Leadership – Richard Davis

Prayer: The Key to Revival – Cho : My favourite book on prayer of all time. 

Prayer is the Answer – Various (Bounds / Murray / Wesley)

30 Days of Prayer – Spurgeon

Walking in Wisdom – Dr. Raymond Barber

The Problem is You – John Burke


Friday, November 6, 2020

The Covid Advantage – 5 Trends That Will Drive Church Growth in the New Era

 The Covid Advantage – 5 Trends That Will Drive Church Growth in the New Era 

God turns all things (even evil things) for good when we co-operate with Him. 

We see this in the story of Joseph: “You intended to harm me, but God intended it all for good. He brought me to this position so I could save the lives of many people.” Genesis 50:20 

Joseph tells his brothers, “Even though this was an evil and terrible thing you did, God has had an awesome purpose in it all! God’s good purpose has prevailed over your evil purposes.” 

We see it again in John 9: In John 9 the disciples see the suffering of a blind man and ask Jesus who sinned to cause this? Jesus answers, “You’re asking the wrong question. You’re looking for someone to blame. There is no such cause-effect here. Look instead for what God can do. We need to be energetically at work for the One who sent me here, working while the sun shines.” (John 9:3-4 - The Message) 

Jesus invites the disciples to stop asking why the suffering is happening and start finding God’s purpose in the suffering. In both Joseph’s story and in John 9, God’s servants have a responsibility to co-operate with His purposes to bring about the good in their negative circumstances. 

So how can we find the opportunity for God’s purposes in the midst of this pandemic? How can we, like Joseph, co-operate with God’s purposes in the midst of this trial? Here are five trends that are developing as we move through Covid-19 that at first seem negative but if we will co-operate with God’s purposes, they can be leveraged to advance the gospel and grow the church. 


Trend # 1: Declining commitment to attending church.
Opportunity: Engagement is the new connector. 

People used to attend church because they “should”. But increasingly, even those who regularly attend are attending far less often. They may continue to claim a church as their “home church” but rarely darken the door. Covid has accelerated this trend. 

So how can we adjust our thinking to encourage greater commitment to attendance? 

Old thinking: “People who keep attending will eventually get involved (engaged with small groups, serving, attend ministry events).” This is no longer true. 

New thinking: People who get involved (engaged – especially in serving) will eventually commit to attending. “Engagement drives attendance” not “attendance drives engagement.” 

Why does this work? People believe they have better things to do than to “attend church”. But if they are on a team - making a difference – attending church IS the better thing that they have to do. Why? Because it’s not just attending – it’s “being a part of something God is doing, making a difference and serving”. People want purpose. They want to be a part of something that is making a difference. They want to be on a team. 

We can’t wait for someone to commit to our church before they are invited to serve. That is backwards, they will only commit to attending church once they have begun to serve. Great Sunday services are not enough to keep them connected and coming back. People need purpose! 

Engagement is the new driver of attendance. 

Thoughts about how to take advantage of this opportunity? 

1. Don’t berate people for not attending church – instead boldly invite people to get in on the mission. 

2. Don’t apologize for there being a lot of work – instead give people meaningful jobs to do and thank them for making a difference. 

3. Make sure you tie every job to meaning – “what you did today made it so we could reach people together… thank you!” Don’t tell them just how it will benefit them – tell them how they are benefitting others – Ie, “By *attending today, you encouraged me and all these people here.” *or by smiling, being welcoming, worshipping passionately, showing up on time (or just showing up…lol), saying hi, overlooking someone’s faults, crossing a cultural barrier (age, race, economic etc.), commenting, sharing, “liking”, praying, inviting, 

4. Be clear on our mission – state it every single service and every single e-mail and every single chance you get. State it not as your own but as owned together. State it as an invitation to join. 

5. Think of other ways to “engage” people – home groups, men’s and women’s ministry, etc. – we used to think of these as steps “beyond” church attendance – now we need to think of them as steps “towards” church attendance. 


Trend #2: Chaos, instability, polarization and volatility.
Opportunity: Stability is the new attraction. 

Understanding this trend: We are swimming in change. Swimming in controversy. Swimming in opinions. People are more polarized over more issues than ever before. We are longing for something to steady us – not another opinion to sway us – not even another opinion to agree with us – but a non-anxious presence. A reassurance. A strength that goes way deeper and more foundational than the shouting of protests and preachers. A compass that shows true north. Whether people know it or not, they are looking for an anchor, something that is sure and steady in the storm. So how can we adjust our thinking to help people feel grounded in the storm? 

Old Thinking: Do something bold and controversial to get people’s attention.
New Thinking: Offer people a place to be free from the chaos and find rest, peace, hope, and confidence in Jesus.

What hasn’t changed:
1. The gospel is still the power of God for transforming lives
2. God is still building His church and it will prevail against the gates of hell
3. The church still needs humble, servant-hearted, passionate, persevering leadership
4. The mission is still the great commission
5. God is still on His throne – He is in charge and we must trust steadily in Him in the storms. 

Be careful of squeaky wheels. There are a few crazy people in the world and the internet has given them a new boldness and a new megaphone – but they don’t deserve your attention. They don’t need a response. They don’t represent as large a group as it seems. If you oppose them or you join them - you will lose – they are little foxes with big barks. Focus on your calling, focus on our God. 


Trend #3: Increasing loneliness and relational voids.
Opportunity: Relational connection is our competitive advantage. 

If there is anything the church is supposed to be great at and known for, this is it. We won’t win when we compete with the world for entertainment or many other things but when it comes to loving relationships – that is our sweet spot! People are overwhelmed with crowds and even with small social interactions, but they are so thirsty for any connection at all. This was a trend before Covid and Covid has accelerated it. 

Due to Covid, services are smaller. That can be great! Due to Covid, people are stuck at home, that can be great! Due to Covid, people are online more. That can be great! It can be great IF we can find ways to take advantage of these things for relational connections. 

Here are a few ways we brainstormed in a leadership team at VCMJ: 

1. Small services: Increased opportunities for better connections and interactions. I have had conversations with people I would never have had conversations with before. There is a whole new arena of ministry opened up to us. 

2. Registration for services: We get an extra chance to greet each person who comes to our services. We get to learn and say their names. We can track attendance, newcomers, etc.. 

3. Care calling: People are more open to receiving a call and a prayer than previously. 

4. Online interactions: People are sending more e-mails, messages, texts, and online comments than before. We can use these for relationships. 


 Trend #4: Increasing challenges with emotional health.
Opportunity: Bring this conversation into the church. 

Interest in emotional health is at an all-time high. The people you think are “healthy and successful” are struggling with their own emotional and mental health. People are more willing than ever to admit their need. Therefore, speaking into the felt needs of fear, anxiety, stress, esteem, and depression with clear, compelling, compassionate GOSPEL answers is an amazing new opportunity. It is important to acknowledge that as pastors and leaders, we are grappling with the same challenges. We can offer the Answer not as ones who are superior and have it all figured out, but as fellow sojourners. 

People are hungry for good news. We can provide places where: 

- It is safe to be vulnerable, to wrestle with our challenges and not feel shamed or judged 

- We are lifted, strengthened, encouraged, built up, offered joy, etc. 

- There is hope and healing 


Trend # 5 Opportunity: Whenever you or your leaders find new things to complain about or be frustrated about, ask some questions to see if you can “flip the script”. 

This is not just an exercise in positive thinking, it is an invitation for God to take the difficult and evil things happening to us and turn them for good. 

What is frustrating me right now? (or what is making it “impossible” for us to do effective ministry?) Ask how this might be able to be used to serve God’s purposes? 


Summary: 5 opportunities from negative trends 

1. Trend: Declining attendance – Opportunity: Engagement drives attendance – Let’s get people engaged in the mission. 

2. Trend: Chaos and change – Opportunity: Stability is attractive – Let’s offer people a place to find peace in the storm. 

3. Trend: Loneliness and isolation – Opportunity: Make relational connections – Let’s make love our competitive advantage. 

4. Trend: Fear, stress, etc. on the rise – Opportunity: Bring emotional health in the church – Let’s engage the gospel to reach this felt need. 

5. Any problem you are facing – let’s invite God to turn it into an opportunity.

Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Playing It Safe Means Losing The Game

One of the greatest temptations I face in life is to play it safe. To sit on the sidelines and let other people step out and take risks. It's easy to take risks when you have nothing to lose. But once you have accumulated a few things in this life it gets harder and harder to step out and risk. One of the problems with success is that we are afraid of losing the things that we have gained. We move into protectionism instead of taking new ground. When we do this we lose the sense of adventure that life is meant to be.

Here is how Erwin McManus puts it, "By definition an adventure is "an undertaking or enterprise of a hazardous nature." In other words, it comes at great risk and at significant cost. And life as God intends for you to live it is nothing less than an adventure... You might be thinking, I'm not sure if I really want to undertake an enterprise of a hazardous nature. Is a life of adventure really worth the risk? Is it really necessary? Yes, you can choose to play it safe, you can choose to settle for less, but never forget this: You were born to live a great adventure; You were created with a divine destiny; You are called to fulfill a great mission."

Oh man, when I read those words I want to look in the mirror and shout, "Get going! Don't hold back! Yes, use your brains and be smart about it but the worst thing you can do is sit there frozen by fear when God is for you and on your side - go forward!"

It's too bad that sometimes the message of Jesus is so misrepresented. So many times people think that Jesus' message is all about what you should not do. Don't do bad stuff and you are obeying Jesus. The invitation of God is not so much about what not to do, it is about what we are called to do. Jesus calls us into action, not away from it. He calls us to FOLLOW HIM in the great adventure of living life to the full and fulling the purposes of God. The message of God calls us away from sin SO THAT we can give ourselves to the GREAT THINGS that God has for us. The message of Christianity is not the emptying of desire (that is Buddhism) but instead it is the transformation of desire. God is inviting you into the adventure of a lifetime in following Him. You only have one life to live...what are you waiting for? Let's go!

Friday, May 14, 2010

What Do I Really Believe?

Our faith is constantly in motion. Some things we are becoming more convinced of, some things we are becoming less convinced of. Everyone has faith, things they really believe without "5 sense evidence" (I can't see it but I believe it). Many of our beliefs are not solid, they are in transition...somewhere between "I really believe this" and "I don't believe this at all." This is not a bad thing; we are human beings on a journey, not in one static position. But it does create confusion. Some people would like to think that all their beliefs are "rock solid", I think they are deceiving themselves. Others would like to think that all their beliefs are in flux, not really steady (these people sometimes call themselves agnostics), I think these people are deceiving themselves too.
The reality is that we all have some things we really believe to the core of our being, some beleifs that are in transition, and some beliefs that we reject altogether.

I think it is useful to honestly ask, "What are my core beliefs?". If you don't know what they are you feel as if you are on very shaky ground. For me, I need to get away and spend time in reflection to find my core beliefs. I usually have to face all my doubts and wrestle with my thoughts and prayers. Finally, after a while, my core beliefs begin to surface as the clutter of my mind and heart are stripped away.

My core beliefs have to do with...(in order of how core they are to me)
1. Authenticity is the only way to find truth.
2. Jesus Christ is a real person who invites me into a satisfying relationship with Himself.
3. Joy is a real possibility regardless of circumstances.
4. Every person is someone who has a soul. They are more than a body, there in someone inside that body who needs love and fulfillment.
5. Life is a journey filled with pain and struggle for everyone in which God is overseeing a grand story that I only have a small picture of.

Friday, October 9, 2009

To be God or not to be God

It's okay that I am not God. It's okay not to have everything figured out. It's okay to be left with questions that I don't have all the answers to. It's okay that I am not God.

Psalm 131:1-2 "My heart is not proud, O LORD, my eyes are not haughty; I do not concern myself with great matters or things too wonderful for me. But I have stilled and quieted my soul; like a weaned child with its mother, like a weaned child is my soul within me."

My advice? Find joy in being God's child. Don't try to be His advisor. Find rest, my soul, in Christ alone. We all long to have the simple childlike trust that Psalm 131 calls for. Try it out, lean back on Him...you'll like it!

Thursday, September 17, 2009

The Difference Between Christianity And Every Religion In The World

The difference between true Christianity and every religion in the world is how it's spelled.

Religion is spelled, "D-O." Do. If I do enough good, then God will be pleased with me. He will accept me. I will get into heaven (or nirvana or whatever version of heaven that religion has). Most people in the world and many who claim to be Christians abide by this philosophy of life.

True Christianity is spelled, "D-O-N-E." Done. It has already been done on your behalf. There is nothing you or I can do to make up for the sin we have committed. Even the best person in the world could not do enough. But Christ has already done it; He died on the cross for you to pay the price for your sins that you could never pay. Our role is not to do enough good deeds, but to accept what has already been done for us. We gain access to God and we please God by receiving Jesus Christ, not by being good.

Ephesians 2:8-9 says it like this, "God saved you by his grace when you believed. And you can’t take credit for this; it is a gift from God. Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it."

Maybe you have been leaning on your own good deeds, hoping that they would be your ticket to being right with God and going to heaven. Trade your good deeds in today for Christ's work on the cross. Leave religion behind and enter into a relationship with God through Christ. You can do this by changing trusts. Exchange your trust in your own good works for a new trust in Jesus Christ's finished work.

Do vs. Done
Works vs. Grace

Friday, September 11, 2009

Is That Being Balanced or Just Lukewarm?

Cold and hot are both equally uncomfortable. People tend to want to gravitate toward the middle. This works great for things that are best lived in the middle. But what about those things where being in the middle makes the least sense of all? Our tendency to want something comfortable will be our enemy on those things. We will have to fight our desire for comfort and go for the less comfortable but more correct way.


“Christianity, if false, is of no importance, and if true, of infinite importance. The only thing it cannot be is moderately important.” C. S. Lewis

Tuesday, August 4, 2009

Convergence

When faith and life meet there is a powerful convergence of two streams. Faith on its own has a certain power to it. It inspires me and calls me to a higher life. It opens my eyes to realities I may not otherwise be able to see. But it’s power becomes usable when it comes into contact with real life. When faith actually effects my work, marriage, moods and minute choices it becomes fuel that not only makes a big explosion but actually turns the turbine of an engine.

Is a fire powerful? Yes, but not necessarily useful. Its usefulness is determined by what the fire is applied to. It is powerful and useful if it is heating my home or flying me to my chosen destination in an airplane. When the fire of our faith converges with the practical realities of our life it becomes a useful fuel. Why not try out living what you believe and see what happens? If you like the results, try doing it more and more often. What would happen if we always lived what we believed? Convergence.