God knows best how life can be lived. People mess it up. When we live our own way, this world's way, or whatever way that is different than God's plan, we hurt ourselves and the people around us. So much of life's pain is caused by living in ways that are not God's plan.
Simple things like...
-Great sex within a marriage covenant.
-Stewarding our finances well.
-Growing the fruits of the spirit (love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, and self-control) in our hearts.
-And so many more would keep us from so much pain in our lives. Oh, that people would learn and follow God's ways!!!! Oh, that churches would rise up and fulfill our mission to help people learn and follow God's ways. How great our lives could be.